Different things work for different people........I lost my Dad
in Lynn hospital in 2009 and I wasn't there as I live in Scotland. I had said my goodbyes about two weeks previously before his condition had markedly worsened. That was OK for me because I had conditioned my thought processes to that. However, my little brother was there at the end and he said that he wouldn't have been anywhere else.
Posted By: Kirrie on July 12th 2011 at 14:44:35
Message Thread
- Don't wanna be awfully morbid, so sorry. (NCFC) - songwriter, Jul 12, 12:56:33
- Very sorry to hear this . . . (NCFC) - Alan, Jul 12, 22:49:28
- So sorry to hear that do what you feel is right (NCFC) - pinkney, Jul 12, 15:12:59
- Different things work for different people........I lost my Dad (NCFC) - Kirrie, Jul 12, 14:44:35
- Really sorry to hear that, as below though its what works for you. (NCFC) - megson, Jul 12, 14:01:06
- so sorry to hear this, i can't add anything there is some good advice below (NCFC) - strap_on sally, Jul 12, 13:50:33
- sorry to hear that (NCFC) - Tombs, Jul 12, 13:36:52
- good point that! (NCFC) - Cheltenham_Canary, Jul 12, 13:59:54
- there's not much i can add to what's already been said (NCFC) - Ralf Scrampton, Jul 12, 13:28:31
- sorry for your sad news, I would like to be there but as the others say, no right or wrong (NCFC) - Jumbo1, Jul 12, 13:24:23
- Deepest sympathies (NCFC) - Huge 5mal1, Jul 12, 13:20:43
- Think it is really personal. I regretted not being there with my grandad, then regretted (NCFC) - Steve in Holland, Jul 12, 13:18:39
- Up to you innit (NCFC) - pants, Jul 12, 13:12:56
- really feel for you mate, i was in similar postition 2 years ago... (NCFC) - Cheltenham_Canary, Jul 12, 13:12:07
- No right or wrong with this. I was with Dad in a hospice for much of his last few hours. (NCFC) - malkybarkid, Jul 12, 13:09:30
- Very similar to when my grandad died . . . (NCFC) - Alan, Jul 12, 22:46:33
- Having been with many families going through this over the years, I would be with him and (NCFC) - woody, Jul 12, 13:08:10
- Some people don't even get that mate, I didn't (n/m) (NCFC) - conker, Jul 12, 13:04:42
- Nor me, he dropped down dead clearing snow from his car. Nice way to go for him. (NCFC) - trustsec, Jul 12, 13:58:41
- I wasn't there for either of my parents and ... (NCFC) - meeky, Jul 12, 13:02:42
- Don't listen to anything we say, fella. (NCFC) - Arganth, Jul 12, 13:02:02
- If you are at peace with how you said goodbye, let it be. Have no regrets. (NCFC) - XXL16s_babyface, Jul 12, 13:00:22
- I'd want to be there for the last, your Mum would like it too I reckon. (n/m) (NCFC) - jafski, Jul 12, 12:59:39
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