Another thing, if you feel rising above everything most of the time

strains you

Here's how you play the game back, you remove aspects of life from them

If they know you about your hobbies and interests, remove them from conversations

"you going to the gym tonight?"

You "no, I've quit the membership"

"why"

You "I just don't think I'm going to go anymore"

Then you carry on going to the gym. It's your very own silent banter back. The more they goad you, the less you let them know about you. The less they goad you, the little bits you bring back in

It's ultimately a control thing, once you're in control quietly, you'll be fine

Posted By: pants on October 11th 2013 at 12:43:51

Message Thread

Wrath Help Needed: When does office banter/laughs become "bullying" (General Chat) - essexcanaryOTBC, Oct 11, 08:35:18
- you come across really aggressive at times on ere (General Chat) - sotoncanary, Oct 11, 12:56:27
- people have different sensibilities (General Chat) - sotoncanary, Oct 11, 12:39:06
- There's no such thing as banter, just tolerance (General Chat) - pants, Oct 11, 12:37:51
  - Another thing, if you feel rising above everything most of the time (General Chat) - pants, Oct 11, 12:43:51
- Maybe I'm being thick but I don't understand this bit: (General Chat) - CB41, Oct 11, 10:36:47
  - It's a games console. (General Chat) - Ken Dodds Dads Dog, Oct 11, 11:04:15
  - "game over" (n/m) (General Chat) - Pixelman, Oct 11, 10:57:01
    - Ah, right. (n/m) (General Chat) - CB41, Oct 11, 12:14:24
- Follow this person out of the office tonight at a reasonable distance (General Chat) - MIKEWALKER, Oct 11, 10:26:02
  - VMT (n/m) (General Chat) - strap_on sally, Oct 11, 10:55:18
  - Walk away whistling Carried Away by a Moonlight Shadow like Dave Angel, Eco Warrior. (n/m) (General Chat) - Arizona Bay, Oct 11, 10:50:41
  - post of the year! (n/m) (General Chat) - SCC 28, Oct 11, 10:30:15
  - ^ has done this before ^ (n/m) (General Chat) - duke of york, Oct 11, 10:28:05
- My mrs works in HR and sees stuff like this fairly often (General Chat) - SimonOTBC, Oct 11, 09:56:11
- If you have to ask the question... then it's reached that point. (General Chat) - CWC, Oct 11, 09:47:05
- it's tough (General Chat) - dr fanta, Oct 11, 09:22:53
- ^^^ this is the guy who was having a poo next to AB yesterday ^^^ (General Chat) - Old Git, Oct 11, 09:08:09
  - Is this referring to an event yesterday? (n/m) (General Chat) - Dandy Highburyman, Oct 11, 09:10:42
    - No, the word "yesterday" is a smokescreen (n/m) (General Chat) - Old Git, Oct 11, 09:12:51
      - No idea what you're on about (n/m) (General Chat) - Dandy Highburyman, Oct 11, 09:23:15
- It's all subjective really. (n/m) (General Chat) - Ken Dodds Dads Dog, Oct 11, 08:48:57
  - Maybe spare a thought for the other guy's feelings (General Chat) - Ken Dodds Dads Dog, Oct 11, 08:51:50
- Difficult to say without an example and context. (General Chat) - col canary, Oct 11, 08:46:22
- the point it becomes bullying (General Chat) - ghostof barry butler, Oct 11, 08:43:12
  - The irony! (n/m) (General Chat) - Old Git, Oct 11, 09:08:25
    - indeed (n/m) (General Chat) - sotoncanary, Oct 11, 12:41:03

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