Good self knowledge

When I'm mediating this stuff the hardest thing to get people to understand is that the person on the other side (the purported victim, the purported bully) will see what happened completely differently.

My role requires me to be impartial (trained to be so).

Ultimately, whether people are badged insensitive/oversensitive what everyone should really be shooting for is an environment in which someone can say "I'm not okay with that" (in either direction) and saying that is not viewed as an aggressive act.

As I said. It's complex stuff.

If you've found a way of dealing with it, that you're comfy with, then cool.

Posted By: Cardiff Canary, Feb 16, 13:41:26