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Sexual Problems - Ejaculation and Semen

This section has been split into the following:

General Experiences

Erections and Impotence

Ejaculation and Semen


Ejaculation Problems:
Concern about semen and thrush

Q. I have been having an embarassing problem, which has been causing me some concern for the last two years. When I ejaculate my sperm is runny with lumps and tinged yellow as if mixed with urine, it also has an unpleasant smell. If I do not have sex for a few weeks the runnier and lumpier it becomes. This causes some discomfort when ejaculating.
I am also prone to thrush like infections, which respond well to treatment with canestan. The thrush-like symptom always returns a few hours after having sex. My fiancee also has frequent problems with thrush, usually following intercourse with me. I had an operation for an un-decended testicle when I was 4, could this be connected? I am now 32. I am considering having a vasectomy (for other reasons) would this cause any problems?

A. Lots of questions. First the undescended testes is almost definitely not connected although there is an increased from testicular cancer so check for lumps as descried on this site. The vasectomy will make no difference as the bulk of semen is from the prostate no the testes. Repeated infections with thrush should be investigated by your doctor as you may be diabetic. It may not be thrush as it is unlikely for it to show so soon after intercourse. It can be passed on between couple so you should be treated at the same time. Semen does turn more yellow as we age. It also gets thicker and less in volume. Even so, any infection will make this worse and can produce a smell. I suggest you see your doctor over all these points but I really do not think you have anything nasty going on.
Prolonged liquefaction condition

Q. My semen test shows that there is prolonged liquefaction condition. What kind of medicine should I take.

A. You should discuss this with your family planning clinic but I doubt if there is any specific medicine required. Your semen is simply taking longer for the enzymes and acid in the vagina to become liquid allowing the sperm to swim freely. Being dehydrated can make it worse so take plenty of fluids (non alcoholic)
Ejaculate too fast

Q. I have a serious problem...I need to delay my ejaculation during intercourse. I ejaculate too fast, please find me a solution of any kind.

A. There is very good advice on this site. Check it out first.

Q. I'm an 18 year old virgin and have recently met a new girlfriend! However I had quite an embarrasing experience the other day. We were only kissing and did nothing else but it got quite passionate and I became very aroused and came! She didn't notice as I made my excuses and left but now I can't relax when we're kissing in fear that it will happen again.

Is it natural to ejaculate at such an early stage? Is there any way that I can stop myself becoming so aroused so easily, or will it get better with time or what?

A. Your reaction is totally normal and it will get better. There is good advice on this site about premature ejaculation.

Q. I am a 20 year old male and am avoiding sex due to the following:

Pre-come, to the piont where my partner thinks ive already ejaculated, although i havent. Ejaculation takes place seconds after i enter her. I have tried the squeeze technique and it is not working.

A. There is very good advice on this site. You might also try asking your GP for some beta blockers such as propranolol which might get you through until you can control it all.

Q. I'm in a long distance relationship and I only get the chance to meet my girlfriend three nights a month. My problem is that I often get irregular erections, and it is becoming a major problem. My girlfriend is getting very frustrated with me. I don't understand how I can have a hard erection one night and then get nothing the next day. It is humilating, emotionally bruising and very frustrating. I'm twenty years old and she is my first real girlfriend. I fear I will lose her if I don't sort this problem out.

Can you offer me any medical advice on what I can do solve this problem? When she gives me oral sex, I have never been able to ejaculate in her mouth. This may seem trivial, but is that natural? As she wants me to cum and I want to as well, but I have never been able to. I hope you can help me, as I don't know what to do.

A. If ever there was a case of trying too hard this has to be it. So many guys are out there nodding their collective heads. Getting an erection is a complicated affair but one thing we do know is that desperately wishing it will happen is like throwing ice water on a big dick. Yes, you might be able to produce an erection on the first night but simply wishing it will happen again after all the anticipation is not a goer. Even Yorkie eaters have this problem.

Take more time over the subsequent sex, use more foreplay, use sexy videos or books and generally take it much slower. Not being able to ejaculate under pressure is so very common no matter where it ends up. A great deal of this is due to the way us blokes are brought up as things 'being dirty'. Just take it easy and let things happen in their own time rather than trying to make them and it will all get there in the end.

Q. Dear Sir, I would like to know about the Big Problem of Men " SEX ". I am 26 year old boy and unmarried. My problem is that because of masturbaution my penis shape has changed meaning it is not straight and not in power. Second thing is that now I discharge within 30 seconds which means too early. Also I like too much to do sex with a girl but when I got a girl my penis not stand exactly (it is not that I not have sex desire, I like it too much and think more about sex.)

I would like to inform you that now I leave masturbation and go regularly to the GYM and have very nice body figure, but because of above mentioned problems I worry. So kindly help me and suggest me some cream or oil or medicine for Penis strength and increased time limit.
I will be very thankful to you. Thanks with best regards.

Posted By: Dave in France on May 12th 2007 at 19:20:12

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